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Sunday, July 4, 2010

Hormat

Ello~

Lama x update blog, adakah tanda2 kemalasan itu telah muncul??hehe...lets wait n see..
Kali nie topik yg ingin dibincangkan ialah..Hormat. Sape rase dier tahu dan rase dier praktikkan bende nie sepanjang dier hidup nie?sume org ade pandangan sendiri psl perkara nie, so ak nk bgtaw ape pandangan ak psl hormat nie.
Firstly, ak rse hormat nie about listening. If you dont listen to other people, clearly la kan ko x respek org tue...nmpk obvious kan? Tp bape rmi yg praktik? Bile sorng da start tinggi sore kt korng, ape yg korng rse? Mst rse nk lwn balik je, siap lg tinggi sore lg, takpun buat bodo, n x dgr ape org tue ckp...btol x?ak x kate la sume..tp mostly people would do this..
Hello0o0o0o0..mane hormat td??haha...easily lost kan??justifikasi korng?
"dier yg x hormat ak","ckp elok2 la...mrh2 mne nk dgr..","emo je tue.." n bnyk lg la...
Mmg la cara dier xkena kan...tp kalu btol korng kate korng hormat td...korng akn dgr ape yg dier nk sampaikan...sesetengah org, ade mslh nk kawal emosi dier, kte kena phm tue, itu pon part drpada hormat gak tue jap lg kte check..
See...supposely, hormat nie how willing are you to listen to others??biar la dier mrh ke...mengutuk ke...because hormat, pttnyer kte kena dgr ape yg nk disampaikan... in listening, ak x ckp la kena buat ape yg dier ckp tue...just listen maybe you'll get something out of it.

Ok, next... ak nk cerita psl bende plng ssh skali, putting your feet in other shoes.... korng rse sejauh mane korng phm kwn2 korng, gf/bf korng, fmly korng??dari mksd phm nie, ak maksudkan korng phm x cane care dorng berfikir??korng taw ape perkara2 sensitif bg dorng??
Usually org akn kate be yourself...btol tue..sape yg x suke nasib la kan...but still be wary la sape yg ade kt sekeliling tue kan... Kalau jenis ckp men lepas pon consider la perasaan org len... People wont respect you if you keep saying bad things about him/her in a public. Sbb nampk sgt x respek org, n yg paling penting kalu nk ckp men lepas pon...jage la bhsa dan nada, mcm mane org nk dgr kalau cara ckp pon da menyakitkan ati...conflict dgn yg ats td kan??jap lg ak xplen....
Laen org...ade reaction yg laen untuk ape yg kte ckp...some might find what u say is funny, but other might find it offensive, "mcm mane nk taw??" korng tye...
eiii geram ak..dun be stupid la... ak tahu sume pndi bce reaksi org.. saje buat xtaw... nk tnggu org ckp bru nk tau ssh la...nk taw tye la... sbb maybe ade mende sensitif yg korng ckp....xkan dier nk ngamuk tibe2.. be considerate la...rse kalau korng da ckp sumtin yg menyakitkan ati dier...tye la...mntk maaf..kalau dier xnk ckp pon...just keep it as a reminder...
ok ok...nk xplen jap yg conflict td.. ak x bermksd la kalu org tue ckp buat skt ati jgn dgr ckp dier...if you can listen...listen...better gitu... Kalau da sakit sgt2, da cuba sehabis baek da nie, blah je la...at least kalau dier hormat korng...dier akn sedar sumtin dier ckp buat korng rse x selesa.

Haaa...itu opinion ak...ade la aspek2 len tp dua tue ak rse penting, listen n know others heart. Mcm x adil kan??rse mcm one sided??mmg pon... sbb bende nie...korng yg start hormat org len dlu..if u show u respect him/her..
kalu dier x bendul la kan...dier akn hormat korng blk... Kenape korng yg kena mula dulu??easy...

1. Sebab dier korng da bce post nie n dorng x bce..
2. Ble korng da hormat dier...tp dier x hormat korng... kalu korng dlm conversation kan...ckp elok2 kt dier... "Ak phm ape ko nk ckp...tapi bole tak ko ckp elok2??"...dengan itu korng akn rse diri korng lg superior dr dorng...muahahahahaha...n mungkin dier akn berse malu dgn diri dier.

Being in control of your emotion is a good strength, ia akn buat tindakan korng terkawal n ape yg korng ckp bertapis. Not being in control of your emotion is a weakness. Korng akn sng dimanipulasikan. Ala...contoh mcm org nga kapel nie...ble somebody nk dengki...sng je...dier taw yg gurl tue sng jeles, dier wat la cte kono lelaki tue ade scandal... konfem yg gurl tue ilang pertimbangan n dgn harapan kapel tue gado n breakup...ini CONTOH yer..ak x sexist yer...laki pon ade yg kuat jeles nglahkan pompuan yer....

Well..itu opinion ak ntuk perkara nie, maybe ade yg x lengkap, or ak over ke, its just an opinion, take what u think is fit... Well, mostly sume org tau bende nie, its just bpe rmi je yg actually praktik mende nie??not many i assume, kalu sume org buat, ak rse xde perang kt dunia nie..XD

So ak rse lebih sesuai kalu ak kate nie sebagai peringatan kepada semua tentang apa itu hormat.

Sekian peringatan untuk saya dan anda~
adios~



2 comments:

  1. bentol3..setuju.~
    hormat menghormatilah antare stau same len =p

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  2. tapi....
    hehe..
    saya hormat pndgan anda..
    fikri..
    ini pendapat saya..
    =P

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